Dilators

Dilators are thin, smooth rods made of surgical steel, silicone, or glass used to gradually stretch the urethra or vaginal opening.

Medical use:
- Treatment of vaginismus (involuntary muscle tension that makes penetration difficult)
- Recovery after gynaecological surgery or radiation therapy
- Stretching urethral strictures under medical supervision

Recreational use (urethral sounding):
- Urethral stimulation for erotic pleasure — the urethra contains sensitive nerve endings
- Practised as part of BDSM or as a standalone activity

For medical conditions, always consult a doctor first. Recreational use requires knowledge of proper technique and strict hygiene.

The most important principle: always start with the smallest size and work up slowly.

• Size: begin with the thinnest dilator in the set. Only move to the next size when the current one enters without resistance or pain
• Sterilisation: sterilise the dilator before every use. This is not optional but a requirement
• Lubricant: always use sterile, water-based lubricant generously. Never use a dilator without lubricant
• Force: never use force. The dilator should glide in under its own weight or with minimal pressure. Pain is a signal to stop
• Time: take your time. Each session should last at least 15 to 20 minutes. Rushing leads to injury
• Position: lie down in a relaxed position. Tension in the pelvic floor muscles makes stretching more difficult and riskier

Strict sterilisation is mandatory with dilators due to the risk of urinary tract infections and tissue damage.

Surgical steel and glass:
1. Wash with warm water and antibacterial soap
2. Boil for 10 minutes, or use an autoclave or medical-grade sterilisation fluid
3. Allow to dry completely on a clean, dust-free surface

Silicone:
1. Wash with warm water and antibacterial soap
2. Boil for 5 minutes (check manufacturer's instructions)
3. Allow to dry completely

Repeat the same procedure after every use. Store sterilised dilators in a clean, sealed storage pouch or case. Never share dilators with others.

Improper use carries serious risks:

• Urinary tract infection (UTI) — The greatest risk. Inadequate sterilisation or non-sterile lubricant can introduce bacteria into the urethra. Symptoms: burning sensation when urinating, cloudy urine, fever
• Perforation — Too much force or too large a size can tear the urethral wall or tissue. This is a medical emergency requiring immediate hospital care
• Bleeding — Light bleeding may occur during initial sessions. Persistent or heavy bleeding is a reason to stop and consult a doctor
• Stricture formation — Repeated trauma can cause scar tissue that actually narrows the urethra

Stop immediately if you experience: sharp pain, heavy bleeding, fever after use, or persistent pain when urinating. Always consult a doctor in these cases.